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Quality Assured Practice

Ethics

The essence of everything important in life initially stems from morality! Morality evolves out us following a certain pattern of prohibition. Basically there are a lot of bad things you shouldn't do and then, if you can adhere to that pathway, you are good enough! This is how we start with raising children, we place a series of prohibitions on their behaviours. Basically, if those errant behaviours were to manifest, it would make their life really miserable! As an adult, we have to understand how we got from where we started, to where we are right now! Then, we have to understand in what ways we contributed to where we now find ourselves? Just look around you, look in your direct sphere of influence, look at the things that you can fix. Then start to fix the things that are in need of repair but start small and build up from there. But where to start? Well, start in the places where you spend a lot of your time. For example, your room, the office desk, then work towards tidying up your mind. Essentially, that's the place where it all, slowly, begins to change. From there, begin to develop your values, morals, principals. Meaning, define who you are, what you stand for, and, more importantly, what you will not! From this position, your ethics become shaped, honed and polished and your life's purpose and meaning become very real; tangible!

As a therapist, I learned this principle over many years. I discovered, that in order to help clients get their life together, it was imperative that I first achieve this for myself. I found ethical values and sound morals to be of the utmost importance, especially when working with other people. Because these people place their trust in you! It is, precisely this, that makes an ethical practice of paramount importance, even more so in the world of therapeutic intervention. As my practice evolved, my ethics morphed into the cornerstone of my approach to clinical hypnotherapy. Of course, having a desire to help others, means reaching higher levels of cognitive acuity. As such, it was imperative that my own levels of cognitive acuity must align with my life's principles. And because of that, my life's vision and mission statements really must be on the same page. In order to walk the talk; I have to be the talk! To that end, my life's philosophy is, "say what you mean, mean what you say!" So, as a therapist, I must align myself, mentally and spiritually with my clients' needs and desires. Because that is the birthplace of empathy and compassion To view the Code of Ethics I conform to, please click here:

 


 

Experience

The world is full of would-be therapists, you will have friends, relatives. co-workers who will be more than happy to tell you how to solve your problems and in all probability, you may have played the role of advocate general on occasions? However, it was when I made the transition from a would-be therapist to a professionally trained one, that I was able to understand the difference! Firstly comes the realisation why God, in all his infinite wisdom, gave us one mouth and two ears! Secondly, the understanding of the need to suspend judgment and developing some specific skills, for example, compassion, honesty (within certain bounds), empathy and the real bonus of being kind! Equally important to one's training, is some real-life experience. But as valuable as training and life experience is, one needs clinical experience because this cannot be purchased, it evolves over time. But even with training, life experience and clinical experience, it is the way one applies and integrate that experience into practice that ultimately counts! Life experience is important because it is often from our mistakes that life is made good, after all, adversity is the teacher, life is the classroom! This is so because it is these moments of life that instil both competence and professionalism. So, my own life experience taught me compassion and ultimately shaped the way I apply the training I received which is now infused with my life and clinical experience! That much is borne out in the many testimonials I receive from past clients 

Over the years, as a clinical hypnotherapist, I have learned that the most important personal qualities a therapist needs, are, empathy and compassion; but how do you teach that? The empathy and compassion that I have, perhaps, is merely a consequence of what I call Tee shirt syndrome, been there, done that and these qualities are somewhat apparent to the clients I see? Therefore, the way I deliver hypnotherapy is a combination of life experience, professional training and 20 years of clinical which make empathy and compassion a natural fabric woven into my therapeutic practice! To experience this therapeutic approach first hand, you are very welcome to a Free Consultation (more info on that here), you have nothing to lose; except, of course; the Problem!


 

Training & Qualifications

Diploma Hypno-Psychotherapy UK, Certified Hypnotist US, EFT Practitioner, Level 3, Cert' Anxiety Mang't. Cert' PLR.

ln order to have a good emotionally balanced life, the brain needs a certain level of clarity in both language and thought. That is why part of my work focuses on the quality of language a client uses; both internal and external. The quality of poor language is defined by its proclivity, towards negativity, ambiguity, vagueness and/or wrong context. Conversely, when language is well-formed, precise and positive, one's emotional experience of life is usually better! Interestingly, almost every client uses words whose meanings are either vague, ambiguous or filter emotion negatively at deeper levels of the brain/mind. As such, if we are in a buoyant jubilant mood these words will likely have less of a negative effect. But when we are in an anxious or fearful mindset, they can feed into our emotions and life can spiral out of control.

It was the discovery of how we use everyday language that demonstrated to me, how it can negatively influence our general sense of well-being. And from there, how it can affect the way we think, feel and behave. Consequentially, our current mood or state alters the effect a lack of clarity can have on our emotional wellbeing! My aim, in hypnotherapy, is to help clients resolve this subtle, seemingly innocuous, self-sabotaging effect on their everyday experience of life. Trans4mational Therapy, a synthesis of my training, therapeutic and life experience, aims to provide a solution to the issues at hand. If this is something you would like to know more about, take advantage of my free consultation. It's not only free of charge, it's free of any commitment too, and, if you want to, you can also try hypnosis!

My professional training taught me to organize my life experience in a way that allowed me to empathise with the client's experience of life! That is not to say that I know how they feel, because each person's feeling is a subjective matter. It just allows the client to feel heard. Sometimes it is just the knowledge that someone cares, that they are not being judged, that is what often starts the process of healing! In short, it allows the client to feel validated.

Sometimes all we lack is the ability to discover that resource which lies within each of us. This, I believe, is where therapy can really be helpful. The art of hypnotherapy is in helping the client access those inner resources which enable them to overcome the most extreme difficulty. My job as a therapist, therefore, is to use my training, life and clinical experience in assisting the client to bring about the process of healing. The healing can be physical, emotional and/or mental because it is from within this framework that profound change happens.

It is a truth, that being a therapist allows one a greater awareness of the many ways in which life imprints its effect on the human spirit. It is through the use of the healing methods of others, clients or therapists, that examples emerge, that help clients to overcome their difficulty. A common thread in a client's experience is that they feel their situation is somehow unique; which in a way it is. But the important point, is, that it is rarely totally unique! I guess that is why biographies are so powerful in their ability to help others achieve the seemingly impossible. The journey of therapy, therefore, is one in which the therapist and client explore together. The resultant journey, being one of nature, as well as nurture, make the final destination (Goals of Therapy) so ultimately achievable.

I have been in private practice for over 20 years now and have over 19,400 hours of client experience. It is the totality of my training, life and therapeutic experience that I bring to my practice here in Singapore. It is, therefore, my desire to assist each client to achieve their desired outcome for therapy and life.

Training Qualifications

  • Certificate Ericksonian Hypnosis 2000  My first qualification in Hypnosis, earned from The NLP ACADEMY UK in 2000

 

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